So you are referring to practice as distinct from good behaviour, with a ‘kind’ motivation but, with some other kind of goal or positive outcome.
This is a distinction that serves no useful purpose. I am not referring to living a good life as an end in itself.
We are Buddhists here and we already understand that the path and where it leads involves much more than this orientation to life and living. Just living a good and helpful life as an end in itself will not wake us up!
However, thinking of the path as an assemblage of contemplative practices, where a sharp line is drawn between daily life activities and Buddhist-practice, does not make sense - IMO.
The 8-fold path is holistic not fragmentary!
It is only when our practice, the way we behave in daily life and what takes place on the cushion, are part of an undivided process that practice takes off, is continuous, uninterrupted.
When our daily activities are a beautiful expression of human goodness then we can expect beautiful natural stillness to arise on the cushion. Everything comes together and nobody is doing anything. The practice has its own momentum.
That which is undertaken is constructive, helpful, beneficial, not intentionally harmful.
Buddhist practice is the discovery of a natural-process that can only move in one direction, towards clarity, selfless love and, freedom.
We learn how to get out of the way and then seeing and embodying the Dhamma takes place. It happens by itself it’s not something that we do.
The Buddha discovered the Dhamma and his teachings are pointers to enable us to make the same discovery. We don’t apply techniques in order to wake up. We see clearly and discover what it means to let go - step by step.
We engage in actions that are kind and helpful in our immediate situation and we feel naturally inclined to help in any way we can.
There is nothing that is worth having or holding onto in existence because it has been clearly seen that this way of being in the world is pointless and problematic.
There is nothing that compares to the freedom and joy of seeking nothing. Its a liberating insight that has consequences that reverberate through our life - as a whole.
Liberating insight does not mean we become indifferent to what’s going on around us. There is nothing to hold onto, attach to, but there is plenty to appreciate and take care of.
It would be nice if this was made clear from the outset instead of being introduced as an afterthought. I do seem to get negative feedback when I draw attention to this aspect of practice - for reasons unknown.
If awakening happens it does not mean that the practitioner has to crawl into a hole and have no creative, positive and, beautiful engagement in life and living. We don’t have to do this even when we are still living without liberating insight - still inquiring and making our way to freedom.
Whatever we undertake will be directed towards the wholesome and beneficial. That which is helpful not harmful! It doesn’t mean we never make mistakes or always get it right - but we do the best we can.
We don’t have to ‘believe’ that nothing wholesome or beneficial happens in the world or, human beings are incapable of engaging in worthy and, beneficial activities. That living in society is just a trap, a snare, a distraction.
We can all celebrate skillful and wholesome activities on seeing the praiseworthy results that come out of beautiful and creative endeavours. The countless acts of kindness and selfless service that good hearted people undertake for the welfare of all beings.
We may be happy to encourage and support these efforts. We may feel inspired and be happy to help and contribute in some way.
There is suffering in the world and, people are seen to behave in problematic and unskilful ways. This doesn’t mean it’s pointless to support, help in and, contribute to actions that are beneficial on any scale and, in any shape or form.
The inner and the outer are interelated areas of inquiry, practice and, realisation. Good deeds happen in the world that we are happy to contribute to and a beautiful liberated heart is experienced - inwardly.
The Buddha did not discourage wholesome and skillful behaviour on any scale and he did not teach that you should only do individual practice and nothing else.
We can easily do both, work on our inner life and work with others in society to improve our shared life together on a fragile planet.