Autonomy of the Bhikkhūnī Sangha-Aj. Hiriko

You are correct. Discrimination is built into monastic displine - by design. All the monastics have to respect senority within their Sanghas; different levels of ordination within the sanghas mean different procols; etc. All are effective training exercises. As is the social design, where the monastics cannot just go off as hermits. Training design. Four fold sangha - by design.

Those who do not want monastic immersion in training can be laity, and have near total control over their practice.

However. Thailand is waaaaay out of compliance with the design. And it is unlikely they will be moved by human rights argument, or bad pr on human rights either.

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Other flavors of Buddhism may practice with less apparent or actual discrimination and hierarchy. There is also secular buddhism. And all of them are effective practice, imo even up to liberation even for the folks who dismiss rebirth =D

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“Although recognition and respect for some rights articulated in the Universal Declaration on Human Rights can be found in the cultural references and religious texts of many communities, the traditional cultural norms and practices also include numerous discriminatory stipulations. The novelty of the Declaration and subsequent human rights documents is not only universalism – the notion that all people hold certain rights by virtue of being human – but is also the desire to end all forms of violations that have been allowed in existing cultures. In other words, international human rights follow a reactive pattern: as violations are noticed, the rights violated within prevailing cultures are enumerated in declarations and treaties to bring them under protection. In the case of women, many human rights violations and discrimination have been not only culturally permissible, but often encouraged or demanded by cultural norms. That is why CEDAW makes specific references to culture, as well as traditions and customs embodied in cultures, and emphasizes the need to change discriminatory cultural norms, values and practices.” -

I understand why there is discrimination between the elders and the new-comers but this is not the issue here - we are talking about sexism.

As far as I know, the recognition of seniority is not considered a human rights issue. I don’t feel there is anything pernicious about respecting seniority per se. It is not these facts per se that are important. However, if a female elder is not treated ‘equally’ to a male elder then, we have an issue.

If there is anything in the monastic codes - male or female - that leads to discrimination based on gender then, are you willing to ignore that fact? Are you willing to say this is acceptable in your eyes? If not, why not say so?

Are you OK about discriminatory monastic rules in Buddhism? The next logical question would be, if you don’t agree with them, do you choose to ignore them or, encourage change?

If there is a point-blank refusal to do anything about it even though you find this an affront to the basic rights of women then, that’s potentially problematic - IMO. It creates a dissonance between someones values and practice. If we believe that women’s rights should be respected and efforts should be made to do something about this kind of discrimination and, we simultaneously ignore it when it is part of the religion I/we practice - and celebrate - there is a contradiction in this (an ethical dilemma).

There is also an ethical contradiction in pointing out sexual discrimination against females in other religions - world-views - and not objecting to discrimination against females in our own religion - world view. We could argue that our form of discrimination is less troubling than the practices found in other religions and therefore, it is acceptable? This has not been said as of yet, would anyone like to highlight this and make much of it?

Perhaps, all religions could agree to cooperate and tell the ‘United Nations’ to deal with sexual discrimination in every other arena of life but to sanction it in religious practice? Would you have a problem with this?

Shall we make a distinction between religious rights and human rights? I can see how the present dysfunctional dynamic could be justified on these grounds. What we do in Buddhist practice is not to be considered a human rights issue - it is a matter of religious freedoms? We are free to discriminate and treat women as second-class citizens because our tradition says its OK - it is supported. In fact, something like this is actually being done - by some - but it is being done subtlety, implicitly - not explicitly.

This is why I drew attention to ‘spin’ and alternative facts. We really need to own this issue and not baffle ourselves and, others, through ideological persuasion.

Some - not all - religious conservatives, traditionalists and, fundamentalists, would have no problem with making a distinction between religious rights and human rights. They may be openly opposed to some other human rights - as well! As we know, some religions encourage their practitioners to shun, persecute or, kill there own family members, if they change their religion. This seems to be the general pattern we see everywhere?

Those who do not comply with a traditional or ‘accepted’ mandate in Theravada Buddhism may be shunned or ostracised - as in the case of ‘Ajahn Brahm et al.’. In some other religions/teachings, they like to up (or raise) the ante! We all know this, don’t we?

Why not say I don’t agree with this inequality of men and women practitioners in the Sangha and insist that it is not good-enough? If there is a willingness to acknowledge the problem and do something about it - even if it involves a departure from convention - then, this is a cause for happiness and joy. By doing this we are saying boo! to the fearful spectre of religious oppression. It will find another group of Buddhists to haunt and torment.

When there is a point-blank refusal to do anything about it out of fear of ostracisation, persecution etc. or, for some other reason then, we are faced with a choice. Be part of the problem, a supporter of the problematic dynamic through passive acceptance - through inaction - or, practice passive resistance.

Many Roman-Catholics - not all - are notorious for their passive acceptance. They disregard many of the teachings and practices required of them and, still insist on being Catholics. Many, have been conditioned at a young age to submit to the Church and, they have been told that if they are not Catholic, God would disapprove! They may live in fear of change and may refuse to leave the Church - even when some of them have suffered abuse. Violence and abuse can be subtle or gross - correct? This is something we best not emulate - IMO. We need to question everything - it goes with the territory!

We might also consider creating alternative forms of practice that keeps what we can all celebrate and is willing to let go of that which is unwholesome and, therefore, without benefit.

When we build something we need to create solid foundations. Otherwise cracks will appear etc. Our structure - what we build - may look nice but on closer inspection we will discover a problem. I am looking at the problem holistically and there is a problem with the foundations of practice - they are sexist.

Someone had to point out the issues here (there may be others). I have done my best to highlight the obvious ones! It makes me a bit sad that I felt the need to do this but somebody had to regardless of the consequences. It saddens me because it may sadden, annoy or, upset others who I care about. I believe what I have said is reasonably accurate? I hope it helps to awaken people or, at least clarify, why I see problems with the consensus view.

We really need to be the change we wish to see in the world. Cosmetic change does not deal with the underlying issue. If we are vitally concerned about human rights in Buddhism we need to ‘change’ fundamentally.

It seems we struggle to see clearly how human rights and, many other important issues are related to our practice together in fairly insular groups and, our individual practice. There is not a single good reason why it should remain this way!

Lawrence, this seems to be a very personal issue to you. It is to me as well.

I would suggest we be careful about making assumptions or using intimidating rhetoric, friend. Familiar with the term “mansplaining”? Neither of us want that, I hope. For this reason, I will not respond to the personal interrogatories…

There is more than one perspective on nonsexist non oppressive Buddhist responses to this world view’s corruption of Buddhism is.

My earlier point, which I wonder if you may have missed, is that monastic lifestyle is not egalitarian on purpose. And that there is a great deal of diversity in Buddhist practice.

Each individual and community is faced with the cognitive dissonance of what we perceive Buddha taught, and what we see in life.


No mansplaining going on as far as I can tell - just inquiring and questioning. However, if you feel you are being ‘mansplained’ to then, I guess that means you are not interested in my questions and inquiry. That is your choice! I feel I am entitled to speak freely without reference to my gender - is that OK with you? Unless, you would like to make my male-existence a problem of some kind? I could be a female and still see things the way they are being explored - in what I have had to say? There is nothing ‘gendered’ about what I am saying - period.

Unfortunately, I did understand what you said when you reduced the issue to the question of hierarchy. At no point did I take issue with hierarchies - of senior and junior members of the Sangha. I have no problem with Seniority based on the number of rains one has been in robes. Somehow, you conflated the question of seniority in the Sangha with something else entirely. As I explained, there would be no problem if a female and a male elder was treated equally. In the existing monastic rules this is not the case - plain and simple. We know that a sexist dynamic exists within the Vinaya’s of both male and female monastics. This is the only thing I was taking issue with! Where is the confusion about what I have been saying all along? If you would like to talk about hierarchy based on seniority then that’s fine. It is not a topic I have mentioned and is completely unrelated to this thread - or the focus of the earlier threads.

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This is mansplaining. For clearly, I AM interested.

I have no problem with your or my incarnations in any or no gender. May life be used, for liberation, of all beings.



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Silly suggestion: if a population of monks and nuns developed who were used to seeing aggregates and sense bases, rather than gender based identity, we might get less of the above type exchange hopefully.

With metta

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It was pointed out earlier, the relative autonomy of different monastery’s, Buddhist society’s, Dhamma association’s etc. makes broad based collective change problematic. This impediment to meaningful change could also be overcome if there was sufficient collective cooperation.

We now have a progress oriented group in the fourfold assembly called the Ajahn Brahm tradition. We could easily undertake a democratic decision making process within this umbrella group and decide together if we would like to make this tradition a distinct form of Buddhism that completely abandons sexual discrimination in its practices on every level.

This new tradition has already been derided for its progressive actions that were necessary and morally justified. Why not orchestrate a further change - within this tradition - that finishes the job it started when it facilitated bhikkhuni ordination? This would be a natural progression? We could start a new religion - if it is required? Progressive Buddhism. org?

I believe the relevance of what we practice together - and share with others - would increase dramatically as a consequence of genuinely progressive change. We could become an enormous truth-force for good in the world if we took this ‘natural’ step forward?

All we would need to do is recognise in the Ajahn Brahm tradition that completely ending sexual discrimination is a good idea? Then, there would be a need for grass-roots organisation within the tradition.

The case can be made for justifiable change for ethical reasons. We could :star2:-t organising now by starting a network of Buddhists for progressive change.

We could prepare a submission for wise reflection? Right and ‘open letter’ to all the group’s within the tradition? Develop a method for collective decision making that is democratic? Organise a mail-out process as they did in Australia recently that created real and lasting progressive change? All of this can be done! People could remain anonymous if they wished - let’s talk?

We all know that rapid and fundamental change needs to happen in human behaviour if we are going to turn back the tide of destruction. When we become exemplars of progressive change we can then encourage and inspire collective change in every sphere of human activity.

We can say, we have achieved the impossible, can we help you to transition to a sustainable future together through networking and cooperation?

We would benefit from making an appropriate ethical decision and may assist in supporting everyone in the wider community to realise our shared aspirations. :sunrise:

Have you spoken with someone “in the Ajahn Brahm tradition” about your ideas? Such as maybe Ajahn Brahm himself? If not, why do you think they are the best starting point for your ideas?

The Ajahn Brahm monasteries are generally known for taking vinaya very seriously. It’s unlikely that they would be in favor of fundamentally changing it.
Ajahn Brahm participated in bhikkhuni ordinations because people convinced him that it was in line with the vinaya to do it. He would not have done it otherwise.


OK, so maybe he needs a bit more convincing? I find him amenable to logical persuasion. I am starting there because I believe in Ajahn Brahm as a fair man who has a keen sense of natural justice.

If Vinaya reform is exceedingly unlikely and those who are opposed to sexual discrimination are denied that option to bring about change then, they will need to find another way to get rid of the discrimination permanently.

If, there was the formation of a new school of Buddhism that was faithful to those aspects of the early teachings and monastic discipline that did not involve sexual discrimination then, why not network and create that kind of progressive and positive alternative?

Why would you stay with something inherently unfair and discriminatory if you could be part of the creation of something that is not morally offensive.

Why would anyone continue to practice in a Buddhist school that refuses to respect and honour their human rights and, the rights of others?

This is actually what is happening right here- right now - and somehow it is being rationalised and/or excused by people who do not support discrimination against women. This is incoherent behaviour that could have little to do with basic clarity - common sense.

We go from prerational children to rational adults - at least I hope so. We then go beyond rationality - the transrational - when we discover the truth that sets us free. If common sense is a challenge how are we going to wake up?

Hi Laurence,

I understand your frustration with this, I really do, as I have often felt similar anger towards the discriminatory practices present within the fourfold-sangha. However, you continue to classify the entire Theravada lineage within this discriminatory framework, which we know is certainly not the case. The Theravada lineage of Buddhism does not hold overarching discriminatory practices, there is no mandate that says women are or should be seen as inferior in the Tipiṭaka.

And further, the Theravada lineage is not the only school in which discrimination is present. The Tibetan lineage, for one, has been struggling for a very long time to see women as spiritually legitimate, and it is something they still haven’t quite achieved yet.

Your question of, “Why would anyone continue to practice in a Buddhist school that refuses to respect and honour their human rights and, the rights of others?” is a pivotal one and one that rests at the core of Buddhist Feminist Studies. I think the answer is not so straightforward and far more complex and full of challenges than simply creating a new lineage. For me, there is something far more meaningful in grappling with the patriarchy/misogyny already present in a tradition and seeing how those traits can be transformed into something affirming and actualizing.

I think it is also necessary to say that participation does not necessarily equal complicity. There are many people in the Theravada lineage who are working towards creating safe and productive spaces for women, both lay and monastic. It is easy to see all the negatives and to think that progress isn’t being made, but it is, and it’s lovely. :slight_smile:

Also, reading suggestion: Buddhism After Patriarchy by Rita Gross is an awesome text that deals with many of the issues you’ve been discussing. You might find it useful.


Thanks Brenna, I don’t want to give the impression that I am anti-advocacy i.e. against changing discrimination from inside the Buddhist world/worlds we inhabit. I just feel there is also room for activism as distinct from advocacy? Anything that can move us into a better place than we now find ourselves is a good thing. Best wishes for your study in your Dhamma journey to freedom!

I fail to see how this is not the case when I see how discriminatory practices - that are built into the monastic code of discipline - are unchangeable. There are Vinaya rules that discriminate against women in the Sangha - and hence, the human rights of females. It seems that advocacy cannot change this situation and, it does not even appear to be on the agenda as far as I can tell? The strategy seems to involve working around these discriminatory rules instead of ending them?

I am curious if the teachings on acceptance, forgiveness and, the endless encouragement to ‘not complain’ about anything and, appreciate/be grateful for what we have suppresses voices of dissent? I believe we should change the things we can, accept the things we can’t and, have the wisdom to know the difference. When there is a refusal to undergo meaningful and fundamental change in a tradition then we are faced with a choice: abandon the tradition and, create a positive alternative or, stay with the tradition and perpetuate the injustice. Faced with this choice it is obvious to me that the rights of females within the four-fold assembly - now and in the future - should take precedent over traditional practices.

“Other echoes
Inhabit the garden. Shall we follow” - T.S. Eliot

“It is dangerous to be right in matters on which the established authorities are wrong.” - Voltaire

“Co-optation also refers to the process by which a group subsumes or acculturates a smaller or weaker group with related interests; or, similarly, the process by which one group gains converts from another group by replicating some aspects of it without adopting the full program or ideal (“informal co-optation”). Co-optation is associated with the cultural tactic of recuperation, and is often understood to be synonymous with it.” - Wikipedia

Could you find some quotes for these ‘teachings’?

With metta

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I actually started this thread because I wanted to show that the monks are listening. In the same week that this came out we also had this talk from Ajahn Brahmali and there are many other monks contributing in big and small ways to the support and growth of the bhikkhuni sangha and the removal of discriminating practices. So we have bhikkhus, bhikkhunis, lay-men and lay-women all working towards the growth and benefit of the Bhikkuni Sangha.

In only a few years time there will be a wave of Theris (10+ vassa bhikkhunis) in the Western world from the ordinations in Perth and California. California already has several Theris and Mahatheris. To have more Theris and Mahatheris in the world will do amazing things for equality. There will be real depth and real leadership from the female sangha. I find this so exciting. I really feel this is where some big transformations will occur. But we do need to get the nuns there first!

This is not to say that we should do nothing, but let’s not throw the baby out with the bathwater. Western Theravada and the revived Bhikkhuni Sangha are still just small saplings. They need be nurtured to grow into big healthy trees. Sure we can do a bit of gentle pruning but mostly water, sunshine and nutrients are needed.


That’s a good question Mat, where do these teachings come from? We do need to leave all our concerns behind in order to settle down, relax, deepen in tranquility. In our daily lives there is a time and a place to be working with our duties and, challenges we may face. We may also feel the need to be involved in wider concerns and issues.

I am not taking issue with these teachings but they could be taken the wrong way?

I am ‘questioning’ the received wisdom of the elders - the consensus-view about sexism in the tradition. Nobody seems to be denying that it actually exists? Having a different view on this topic could be seen as the ‘fault-finding mind’ up to its usual antics. It could be perceived as a lack of appreciation for what has been achieved. A lack of gratitude for the good work of so many wonderful and praiseworthy people etc.

This could create a situation where those who ‘beg to differ’ when it comes to issues like this are problematised - viewed with suspicion etc. I certainly don’t intend to ruffle any feathers but there has been a bit of disquiet expressed in this discussion and, in the earlier threads. In fact, right from the outset I was told that it was not a good idea to even think about these matters. I was directed to only reflect on the the things we can celebrate about the progress that has been made and, reflect on the ancient writings of awakened bhikkhunis.

I am happy to celebrate what we have at the moment and what has come down to us from the early Sangha but, I also feel it’s worthwhile to reflect on where we would like to find ourselves - sooner rather than later. With a form of Buddhist practice that we can celebrate unconditionally - without reservations.

I feel the only way we can get there is to end sexual discrimination completely - which means Vinaya reform. Permanently removing discriminatory rules and forms of etiquette from Buddhism within ‘our’ practice community’s ???

I genuinely feel that this would make our tradition truly progressive. An unsurpassed field of merit for the ‘modern’ world that is in desperate need of moral leadership and guidance.

OK, fair enough! How long are you prepared to wait for sexual discrimination to completely end in the Buddhist community you practice in? If it never actually happens is that something you are willing to envisage?

There are systemic checks and balances in the tradition which guide practitioners with regard to what they can think and, not think, when they reflect on the 3-fold training in all its aspects and particulars. It seems like its OK to think about sexism but there is a taboo against dealing with the issue head-on! Everyone is required to just put up with it whether they like it - or not. Many of us can see that these discriminatory practices serve no useful purpose but are troubled by the prospect of living without them - permanently. Nobody seems willing to stick their neck out to far and say enough is enough which demonstrates the power of Buddhist ideology. We might be better off without the ‘Kalama Sutta’ - it does not seem to belong.