I bow to Sangha with my head in the feet of the Sangha … Great Masters, please remind me of the Sutta in which Bhagwa says, “I did not leave the household life because my wife and children were not dear to me; rather, I left because liberation was dearer to me.” Rajeev Dagla
It’s not totally the exact phrasing but maybe you have a mixed memory from:
Vessantaracariya Cp9
and Vessantarajātaka Ja547
and Vessantarapañha from The Questions of King Milinda Mil 6.3.1
The verse is as follow:
Na me dessā ubho puttā,
maddidevī na dessiyā;
Sabbaññutaṁ piyaṁ mayhaṁ,
tasmā piye adāsahaṁ.
I had no dislike of my children,
nor for Queen Maddī.
But because omniscience is precious to me,
I gave my loved ones away.
Also maybe a bit of mixing with AN3.40 and MN26 too.
Thanks a lot, for your clarity on the topic !! ![]()