What would be your suggestion as to what the alternative, non-sexist approach could look like? This is not meant as criticism, I am really curious
This is something I agree with 100%, and as so often, I should emphasize that it is a double-edged sword. Hereâs an article about research potentially suggesting that the males are now discriminated against when applying to STEM academic jobs. Do women feel like they are in the dominant position here? Most of the time, quite the opposite. Do men feel like they are in the dominant position when women are discriminated against? I think, quite often they donât. How can you prevent that protecting one gender leads to discrimination of the former dominant one, as it may have happened in the STEM field? Is it even possible? Letâs assume we all agree that the gender should be considered irrelevant when applying for the most jobs (I donât say all jobs, because I donât know, maybe for some of them the gender is crucial). That kind of solves the problem here. Still, there are some areas of life where we wonât be able to eliminate the gender altogether, like family life or, say, sports. How can we ensure there is no dominance of one gender over the others in these areas?
Besides, while I agree to you that the gender is to a very large extent a social construct, I still think there may be a significant biological element to it. My girlfriend studied neuropsychogy and I had a peek into her book every now and then, so I came across this research among higher apes, where gender differences started to be observed among males and females at a pretty early age. Now, it is possible their gender is formed by some form of primitive society among apes, I donât know, but I still think this subject is too under-researced to make any definitive conclusions. Besides, even if the gender is to some degree biologically conditioned, or, better formulated, if there is sex-conditioned and gender-conditioned behaviour patterns, it doesnât mean we should tolerate direct oppression or discriminate against trans-people, non-binary or agender people, it would be even more stupid than ostracizing Albinos or blond people. You are people like anyone and we are all in the same Samsaric boat, passing the butter for billions of years.
Well yeah, the Buddhist monasticism and Vinaya in particular emerged in a society, where any other gender politic would have led to enormously negative social consequences for the Buddhists. While internally you could have no gender identification, the people from outside would still see you as a man or woman, so keeping up the decorum was necessary. The Buddha allowed to change the insignificant rules before his Final Nibbana, so maybe it would be possible to revise some of the minor gender specific rules at least in the Western monasti circles at first.
At the same time, I donât think that full elimination of gender specific rules would be a wise thing. Not God but man makes pot and pan, but it also means that most of the monastics are yet not ready or able to say goodbye to their gender once and for all. They may still need some of the major gender-conditioned rules.