IF one sees the escape of suffering in becoming non existent, …as self, as soul, as life principle, as body and mind, as a self, as not-self, as lifestream, as mere impersonal processes, does that really make a difference?
I am inclined to…NO…it is all vibhava tanha. In essence one desires non-existence.
If one believes in the idea that there are mere impersonal processes, one can also understand that mere impersonal processes do not suffer. They do no desire the end of suffering. So, if one has this view, one can understand that wishing the end of suffering is rooted in delusion anyway.
Grounds for Tanha
One person might believe that with death finally all suffering ceases because he/she does not believe in an afterlife. This person welcomes death as the escape from suffering. This person sees becoming non-existent at death as the escape from his/her misery. And desires and delights in this prospect. He clings to this perspective. It at least gives some hope, some comfort that there is an end to his/her suffering.
But like the Buddha shows, there is an afterlife, and this is a wrong way of thinking.
Another person considers that he/she is as lifestream for endless times being reborn and experiencing suffering. This person feels that he or she as lifestream or mere impersonal processes must end and become finally non-existent to make an end to suffering. This person delights in that prospects and desires it. Clings to it. At least, he/she thinks, that is the end of suffering.
What they both share is that they strive to become non-existent because both see this as the escape from suffering. They both delight in the idea of becoming non-existent, finally not sense anything anymore, not feel anymore, not perceive anymore etc.
One person delights in the idea to go out like a flame but this will not happen.
Another also delights in the idea of going out like a flame but does that happen?
I feel, both is vibhava tanha because both are a desire to become non-existent.
And it does not really matter how this desire is rooted. It remains vibhava tanha.
There is no such thing as a right striving to become non-existent. Or a striving to become non-existent based upon right view. I do not believe such.
In seeing that nor desire for sensual pleasure, nor desire for existence, nor desire for non-existence, is conducive, i feel, one sees the Path. All these passions are not the Path to end suffering.
That is my feeling with all this.