I guess that I have a problem with the type of thinking that leads to the use of terms such as ‘genetic defects’ as you have used it here.
Firstly there is an implication that the person who is considered to have a ‘genetic defect’ is also defective in some sense.
Secondly once we start to use such terms, then we have a concept of the opposite which would be something like ‘genetic correct’ or even ‘genetic perfect’. This thinking has lead to some very dubious movements such as the eugenics movement that plagued much of the Western world in the early 20th Century. This idea of eugenics seems to be the topic of this thread. It is a topic that is close to me, because even as recently as my 1960-70s childhood in the UK, those with certain genetic conditions were encouraged not to ever have children as part of the education system. This policy is no longer in use and has been discredited. I now see a resurgence of this view and the language that fuels it.
The OP seemed to be skirting around the subject of whether it was wise to practice negative eugenics (in the form of reduced rates of sexual reproduction of people with less-desired or undesired traits).
My point in:
was to highlight that many many people (myself included) have genetic traits that other people find undesirable and which lead them to label me with the pejorative phrase ‘genetic defect’, and hence (however subtly) advocate for the removal of that trait. I believe that this (your?) view is misguided. For me it is as misguided as labelling a newly born girl as a ‘genetic defect’.
So yes, there are many people without my genetic condition that would prefer there would not to be people such as myself in the world, and hence they use language such as ‘genetic defect’.
There are also many people with my genetic condition who would rather not have this condition, but I am certainly not one of them. I am quite happy with my genetic condition even though it does create more difficulties (but also more opportunities) for me in my life than some others. In the same way, a baby girl born into this world is likely to have more difficulties (but also more opportunities) in life because of her genetic condition of being born without a Y chromosome.
This is why I thought it was a useful reflection. I’m sorry that you didn’t find it useful or relevant, and that you had such a bad reaction to it.
We’re getting a bit off topic, but I note that in the UK (where we have our beloved NHS - The National Health Service), in some regional areas where there are social pressures for gender selective abortion, the NHS will no longer tell the parents the sex of the child during routine prenatal check-ups. This seems like a very good NHS policy to me just to show that this sort of thinking is unacceptable in this particular society, although I’m not sure how effective it is in decreasing the number of abortions based on the sex of the foetus.