It’s been said by Ven. Sujato that "Evaṁ me sutaṁ" indicates that a sutta was heard by someone and subsequently transmitted to another person rather than, as tradition holds, that these were the words of Ānanda who purportedly heard them first-hand and later recounted them at the first Council.
May I ask how we know this?
Also, what phrase would indicate a first-person hearing and recounting of a sutta in the EBTs?
We don’t. A breakthrough in understanding is really the only verification that anything in the Canon is what it describes.
The only first-person account I am aware of other than Ananda is that of the laywoman Khujjuttarā, the reciter of the Itivuttaka. Her accounts begin with, “Vuttañhetaṁ bhagavatā vuttamarahatāti me sutaṁ This was said by the Lord, said by the Arahant, so I heard.”