Hello everyone,
What’s the difference between someone who (temporarily) transcends sensuality and someone annihilating the fetter of sensuality in an irreversible way? Maybe the former could be convinced that they’re completely done with it, as the desire for sensuality has apparently ceased, (as in old age perhaps) but in fact that’s not the case.
I’ve been thinking that the former may, as in the case of a brahma god, after some time descend to lower realms again and be born as a human or rat, or whatever, after their time is up in their heavenly “desire-less” state— so apparently the fetter of coarse desire is still there but lay dormant so to speak.
So, how do you know if it’s really destroyed?
On this point, seems there’s quite a big difference between coarse desires ‘of the flesh’, and more subtle desires for what may be called realms of luminous form, and formless realms.
As expressed in AN 10.13 (at least by Bhikkhu Sujato); ”What are the five higher fetters? Desire for rebirth in the realm of luminous form, desire for rebirth in the formless realm, conceit, restlessness, and ignorance. These are the five higher fetters.”
These fetters must likewise be hard to know if they’re truly destroyed or not.
If I were to guess it has to do with having wisdom, and right view. You clearly know the gratification, the danger, and the escape from feeling, form, and the formless. But I’m just wondering if it’s rather easy to fool oneself about this.
Any thoughts? Or references I can look up? Thank you in advance.