Edit to add: Moreover, do you really think being anonymous on the forum would be permitted if it was against the Vinaya?
You are concerned about creating bad karma by inappropriately speaking to a monastic. But by being anonymous on the internet, monastics protect lay people (in general, not you) from making all kinds of bad karma associated with falsely accusing them of Vinaya offenses.
I wonder if it is any more bad karma speaking badly to a monastic (if you donât know they are a monastics) than speaking badly to a lay person. You are the owner of your karma. There is nothing mysterious about it.
Either way, people know that there are monastics here, and that this is Dhamma space. Therefor we should really speak to each other like we are in a monastery, involved in a group discussion where there are monastics present.
People want to be treated like they are real people, most of all. You wouldnât withhold food from someone unless you were inhumane, so itâs good to just treat everyone with the same kindness. Wearing a robe doesnât mean one is Enlightened, and not wearing one doesnât mean you are not. Anyone can follow sets of rules, and there are many who canât because of circumstance, yet that does not bereft them from receiving the Compassion that comes from Buddhist Suttas. Can you be part of the living Dhamma, and give such Compassion to others yourself? It just comes down to one simple thing: be nice.
Buddha says in a later text, the Lotus Sutra, that there are no discrepancies in the words of the Buddhas. We can learn from this too. If we keep a mind cognizant on the medicine we receive from the Dhamma, we can portray a healthy mind towards those who practice the such said Dhamma, because they are our Spiritual Friends.
Agree, but I will still likely take something from someone I know is an actual monastic more seriously than some random internet poster. I assume that there are devout and knowledgeable lay people (although I donât know any Buddhists irl), but for a monastic they have more skin in the game. Itâs literally their full time job, even if thatâs a slightly weird way to describe it.
Agree, but as above an âordainedâ user badge would affect how I listen/read more than how I speak/write.
Just demanding the highest levels of morality from everyone seems too simplistic and unrealistic to me, Venerable. No one can constantly realize this ideal.