Here is the next part of the passage in the Lotus Sutra. Those who are factually carrying out the Buddhist Way are all sons and daughters of the Buddha. The Dhamma transcends family ties and makes them Sanghic:
All phenomena from the very first
have of themselves constantly borne the marks of
tranquil extinction. Once the sons of the Buddha have carried out this path, then in a future existence they will be able to become Buddhas.
So the problem I have is not understanding the cultural context? That saying doesnât exist after death implied a self in ancient india?
That could be the case and would help me greatly to solve my problem.
Would you agree with me that without implying a self saying âdoesnât exist after deathâ only on the ground that there is nothing there, would be correct in the context of someone like me who has not much knowledge on the indian context?
The Buddha said, âMy disciples may be thousands of miles away from me,
but if they are mindful of my precepts they will definitely attain the Way. But if those who are in close contact with me have non-virtuous thoughts, they will never attain the Way. The important thing is to practice. How can there be the slightest benefit from staying close to me if one does not practice?â
Thatâs alright, as long as you have faith in the Buddhaâs words, as you are having now, you will grow in Wisdom to be just like Him. This is His mission, and He has already succeeded in it. Hence the name He has: âSiddhartha.â
It would certainly be more correct. But that is only because you have an understanding of Buddhist teachings. If you told someone who knows nothing about Buddhism that a âBuddhist saintâ (arahant) does not exist after death, they would draw the same conclusion as the ancient Indians. The point is that the views of the ancient Indians, and similar views today, depend on a more fundamental misperception of experience. All ordinary people sense that they exist in a way that is not true from a Dhamma perspective. It is this underlying sense that gives rise to the articulated views that an arahant does not exist after death.
So although it is true that cultural context matters, the problem is actually deeper than that.
Do you mean that the people asking the question do so because they want to know if they will stop existing or if they can live forever in nibbana? And then the buddha basically said both is wrong? To me the question in itself is not that I care to much if I exist it was just weird to me that there was a seeming contradiction, and I want to understand that topic fully.
When you close your eyes do you stop seeing things? No. You donât neither us & noone. Tell me who are you? That which sees through your eyes, smells through your nose, feels through your skin, hears through your ear & tastes through your tongue is you.
I guess your name is UpasakaMalavaro. The thing who calls himself UpasakaMalavaro is your âselfâ. Hope you are with me till here.
Now there is distinction between the things you see and UpasakaMalavaro right?
Now during meditation we experience different states but there is duality present. Which duality? The duality means there is distinction of one who is experiencing and thing which is experienced. In other words there is âselfâ in you who is seeing things or feeling things even after you suppress your 5 sensesâŚright?
Now close your eyes and try to see that âselfâ who calls himself UpasakaMalavaro, which is actually seeing and feeling and experiencing! Trust me itâs very hard (meditation or vipassana or whatever it is actually directed to have this experience) but when you will do that then at a certain point you would see that there is no self and there is noone who sees and noone who experiences. And thatâs when you have found the dimension which is beyond this âselfâ and this is something called (maybe) first stage of awakening called âsotapannaâ or âstream-entererâ.
In simple words when you want to see and experience you can. But when you try to see who or what actually is seeing and experiencing, you will see that there is noone. And thatâs what we call teaching of non-self in buddhism.
Now on paper it is truth but can we really reach above experience by just thinking and discussing over it? No we canât because it is not an easy thing. For it to happen we have path noble eightfold path.
Now they say there are four stages of awakening âŚ1)stream-enterer 2)once-returner 3) non-returner and last of those stages is 4)arhat. You are asking if arhat exists after death? Answer is yes he/she exists but not in a way that word âexistâ implies. And if you ask if he does not exist after death? then also answer is yesâŚhe does not exist after death⌠but not in a way that words ânot existâ imply.
So for a âselfâ or person who has attained first stage called âstream-entererâ is who has experienced this ânon-selfâ once only. And I believe arhant is one who has cut all the things that were the cause of this âselfâ believing that it exists permanently and who dwells in a dimension where there is no beginning and no endâŚhow? He dwells in that dimension by not dwelling anywhere⌠because for arhat there is no âselfâ which takes birth and diesâŚand thatâs why we say he/she has attained âdeathlessâ or ânirvanaâ and there is no rebirth or suffering for him/her.
I believe I could help. If not plz ask me again what you did not understand. I will try to elaborate further in easier words.
I believe that these arhats or stream enterers or whatever are actually higher level beings than us and we should just try to comprehend them by believing that we Cannot completely comprehend them unless we are equal to them.
The thing is I meditated before finding buddhism and it led be to believe in some wrong things, true self, etc. Only after hearing the dhamma did I understand that as wrong. So I personally believe the more knowledge we have about stuff like that the less likely we are to go wrong. Itâs like with an incomplete map, how are we gonna find the destination? Not merely by walking where we feel like⌠so I believe when we are confused we wonât find an answer just by meditating.
But thatâs just my opinion.
The Buddha in His time went on what many people believed to be an unconventional Path, but He succeeded in His goal, and has created a very true and reasonable Path to Enlightenment. Concerning yourself with Nirvana shows you are taking the Dhamma very seriously, and if you set your goal as Enlightenment, you will be a Sage among men. I am very thankful for what the Buddha did, and to those Monks who bow lower than the other, to show how ordinary they want to seem among us to Teach the Dhamma, I am forever grateful. May you follow this magnanimous Path to the end.
No sir âŚwe can actually find answer by meditating. But there are actually more than 1000 kinds of meditation and this word meditation is itself misleading⌠problem is that itâs not as easy as choosing matching clothes for ourself and thatâs why I believe Sangha the third jewel is thereâŚto guide us. And It will take merit for that to happen. Maybe you could change your method to find asnwers which you are looking for.
And about self I think it maybe ultimately true that there is no selfâŚbut we canât experience that. Inside we are thereâŚand for me for ex there is self existing in me. So I take that doctrine of non-self by faith. And this self wonât realize non-self till we create causes for that to happen âŚthat is by following precepts and generousity and being kind to others and thereby ultimately disciplining mind.
No Self can very clearly be experienced because it is a foundational doctrine of Buddhism. But it cannot be experienced by mental speculation, you also have to practice .