@Brahmali, thank you for starting this thread, and the Dhamma in your posts.
I would like to utilize Ajhan Sujato’s TV simile here. If I were to borrow it (my apologies) :
Imagine a little boy grows up inside a box (leaving out who put him there for now!) and the walls, floors and ceilings are high definition TV screens- he believes this world is real because he doesn’t know anything else (ignorance avijja). One fine day he is handed a magnifying glass and he comes in really close and takes a look at pixels/dots (5 aggregates) on the TV screen. He sees a bundle of blue, red and green in each dot- his world is destroyed just then. He thought the images were real, but turns it, it is just an illusion that was created by the pixelated dots. These dots are arising and passing away in such great rapidity (anicca) that it creates the illusion of a continuous flow (nicca)- whereas the reality is snapshots as mentioned by @daverupa. Each arising is completely a new arising- each passing away is completely and utter ‘death’. He also realises all people that he thought existed (Self-view, sakkaya ditti))saw were only pixels (not-self, anatta) on a screen, much like Ven Katukurunde Nanananda’s film reel analogy. There is nothing in between each flickering pixel, just like there’s nothing in between each picture frame in the film reel. Investigating further he realises that, however, something causes these dots to arise- that is, something causes them to arise- something is present that makes them come into being. That is the TV screen and the (for sake of simplicity) the electricity and a TV signal and so on… (DO, -12 links). While they pass away, they do not pass away for ever, but keep re-arising- hence perpetuating the illusion. Having seen the trap- or the illusion- it is becoming unbearable (much like actually seeing past lives, not just fantasizing about it) -like a fraudster who has been discovered, trying to trick you again repeatedly using the same trick which was discovered! To say it in another way- it ‘gets old fast’. i.e. it is Unsatisfactory- the illusion is seen as dukkha. To continue watching again and again, this rebecoming, this rebirth, is maddening. There is no ‘I’, but ‘I’ have been deceived! Then there is repulsion (nibbida). Repulsion away from the never ending dots. Each arising and passing away- using an example from the EBTs- like a cow which has been skinned, thrown into a lake, and fish biting- each bite or contact, is like nibbida. The mind wants it to stop- but also knows it is not real- only an illusion. It becomes dispassionate about experiencing any more pixels. It sees the ignorance of doing so and see that the pixels have no inherent value (as mentioned in the SN22.95). The mind then naturally turns away from the phenomena of arising and passing away, into the cool experience of emptiness. This is cessation (nirodha). Here that smoothness of the analogy ends, except to say grossly if he destroyed the TV (the causes) there would be cessation of the dots. What has this got to do with rebirth?
In this experience, which is experienced by thousands of meditators, in their vipassana meditation- there is no Self, there is no other, there is no coming or going, there is nothing reborn, there in no rebirth (in the gross sense of it)…there isn’t even death. Every moment then becomes rebirth (or death - like I believe Bhikkhu Buddhadasa mentions- though I’m not very familiar with his teachings) and every moment is death (not of a Self though). It is like a flame- only a flame is shorthand for a series of flames that replace each other with great rapidity, when burning wax molecules up in the air. At this level of ultimate reality, it can be said whatever we identify as a being is born and dying continuously. To stop rebirth is to stop this birth and death. To experiencing this stopping, is to experience Nibbana.
The stream entrant experiences Nibbana for the first time with the arising of Dhamma eye. He experiences it again, if they have the ability to attain easily into jhana, again in phalasamapatti. Here the dots (aggregates) stop arising for an extended period -not just a glimpse. Consciousness itself ceases (though not unconscious in the normal sense of the word- this is a meditative state) and nothing is perceived. Meditators make the intention to resume being conscious after some time (sankhara give rise to consciousness). This is close to death. It is not quite because the causes of life still persist, in the form of a body, working sense organs etc. and will eventually wake the person up. I am reminded of the parallel with the attainment of cessation (nirodhasamapatti) where one monk was though to be dead and was almost cremated. When an arahanth it seems that some were able to intentionally enter parinibbana like the Buddha was able to (the ability to enter Arahanth phalasamapatti, maybe relevant to this). The meditator when emerging from such states, experiences rebirth. They come ‘back’ to (who comes back is a question) a different body (body has since changed) and people they knew before are not the same- they have changed as has all of the world. How conventional rebirth differs is a matter of degree of the change. For the meditator who has and can reduce home, office, womb all down to the minute arising and passing away of phenomena, the brightness of the green part of the pixel vs the darkness of the blue part of the pixel isn’t particularly significant any further. The change inherent in the process of EBT Vipassana is life changing. One begins to see that this stream was truly timeless, and the effort it takes to stop it cannot come about by chance. It would like trying to stop a strong flowing of lava. It can only stop when it meets the cool sea (of Nibbana). One also comes to see, by inference, that if it wasn’t challenged now, it would continue onwards- possibly for lives to come and cause suffering for ever. To arrive at this level of appreciation some assumptions and possibly misconception need to be understood:
- The Buddha didn’t say ‘come to me, and I will show you rebirth and all you past lives’.
- Assuming only the material exists, and the spiritual or ultimate doesn’t. Only conventional physics is true.
- Dismissive nature or not even wanting to explore rebirth research before coming to the conclusion that it doesn’t exist.
The Buddha said those who approach the Dhamma with a closed mind only wanting to criticise it, will never be able to understand it (sutta?). To read what the Buddha said and to understand him, requires some degree of intelligence and then on, faith, because of what he has said so far. Those with meagre quantities of such virtues will find the going hard- maybe they will do better face to face with a bhikkhu they have regard for, rather than an online forum. The ability to think ‘outside the box’, is not a gift everyone posses. While followers of the Buddha may try their hardest, they are not in any way indebted to enlighten and drag people kicking and screaming to Nibbana. Intellectual and emotional appreciation of the teachings will take you further than debate any day. Newcomers should seek to approach the wise, and learn from them; not the wise bending backwards to appease the masses. The Dhamma is said to be unpopular among the populace -and so it will be partly because of the leaps required. It probably will not be for everybody!
with metta
ps- even if someone were to see their past lives, they might still have doubts because of recovered memory etc. stories from psychology ie there is no end to scepticism. I personally found Dr. Ian Stephenson’s and the more recent research quite compelling, if someone were to give it a chance. I think going through the rebirth stories from Youtube is not bad thing- it is difficult to say what will work for any given person, so keep and open mind and investigate, is what I would say.