Hello friends, this is my first post here.
I wanted to ask if you have any opinions on this sutta, AN 5.265, particularly in light of another recent and on-going discussion on here, about celibacy being necessary for stream-entry.
This sutta lists five qualities that when unabandoned make one incapable of stream-entry (let alone the jhanas and higher attainments).
These qualities seem more subtle than the stinginess, or possessiveness, that ordinarily surrounds sexual activity and sexual relationships, which makes it seem unlikely that one would become a stream-enterer if one hasn’t given up such coarse types of attachments. What do you think?
I’ll add some of my thoughts regarding these qualities below.
”Without abandoning these five qualities, one is incapable of entering & remaining in the second jhana… the third jhana… the fourth jhana; incapable of realizing the fruit of stream-entry… the fruit of once-returning… the fruit of non-returning… arahantship. Which five? Stinginess as to one’s monastery [lodgings], stinginess as to one’s family [of supporters], stinginess as to one’s gains, stinginess as to one’s status, and ingratitude.”
Presuming that this is correct, and not just some arbitrary opinion pieced together, I was wondering how this could potentially translate to a laypersons qualities, and what they must abandon to reach these fruits. I’ll add some of my thoughts but I’d also like to read yours. Maybe you think I’m wrong about something.
To add a general note— these things are hard to quantify. People have different characters and predispositions.
I’m sure the stream-enterer’s citta would still have fluctuations and moods, so the descriptions under the points below is more like what I imagine they would be generally leaning towards, what they value deep down, not necessarily what they live up to at all times.
1. Stinginess as to one’s monastery [lodgings]
Though preferences would still be there- appreciating some environments and certain individuals over others for example- you wouldn’t have any possessiveness towards any one place or community, so moving somewhere else wouldn’t cause great suffering. This town or that town wouldn’t make much difference to you.
2. stinginess as to one’s family [of supporters]
Maybe this could apply to friends, coworkers, or literally one’s family.
Having emotional distance and independence from others. Not being affected if they “support” you or not. Most of all you wouldn’t get jealous, envious or possessive of them and their attention.
3. stinginess as to one’s gains
I suppose this is about monks and nuns requisites. That would mean lack of attachment to wealth, material possessions, clothes, and similar.
4. stinginess as to one’s status
This one is interesting, and it’s a deep rooted attachment. I don’t know what this lack of “stinginess” as to one’s status precisely means, but I’ll speculate. Another sutta touching on this point is AN 3.101, which makes it clear that ‘thoughts of reputation’, which is closely related to ‘status’, can only get “treated” once the previous coarser defilements are out of the way, which I’ll highlight below.
“In the same way, a bhikkhu who is committed to the higher mind has coarse defilements: misconduct by body, speech, and thought. A sincere, capable bhikkhu gives these up, dispels, eliminates, and obliterates them. [1]
When they have been given up and eliminated, there are middling defilements: sensual, averse, or cruel thoughts. A sincere, capable bhikkhu gives these up, dispels, eliminates, and obliterates them. [2]
When they have been given up and eliminated, there are fine defilements: thoughts of family, country, and reputation. A sincere, capable bhikkhu gives these up, dispels, eliminates, and obliterates them.”
So eliminating thoughts of reputation seems like a very high achievement. I would guess that “stinginess as to one’s status” isn’t quite on the level as this, and instead describes something coarser.
To try to put this point in simple terms, you wouldn’t be in great suffering if everyone turned their back on you, or simply didn’t value your opinions much.
Or, in less lofty terms, you wouldn’t act on purely selfish motives, even though you still have thoughts of such nature, and emotions centering around this. But despite that you would most of all be driven to act for your own and others benefit, rather than trying to look good or impress others out of vanity, let alone trying to gain power or control over others.
5. ingratitude
Taking things for granted, being arrogant perhaps, being blatantly ungrateful to those who have previously or is currently supporting and helping you in various ways. Like your parents, or friends, for example. Expecting a lot but appreciating little.
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To sum up, I think these points paint a picture of someone who have trained their citta away from stinginess and possessiveness— to no longer perceive any lasting safety and happiness in material things, material comforts, relationships, or on a more subtle level, their feelings, and sense of status & power in the world.