To answwr this exactly…he is right in saying who true buddhist is when you consider the goal of followers of Lord Buddha, which is liberation/nibbana(to be free from the sufferings & pains of samsara). But 90 % of today’s buddhists(by this I mean those who have some degree of faith in teachings of Buddha) are not Aryan’s, it’s not debatable but a fact. So we should accept that…if we consider our life filled with mix of happiness and sufferings, we are not Aryans(yet)! But buddha did not abandon anyone because one couldn’t be monk and renounce the samsara. That’s the reason we have 5 precepts of lay persons(like you and me). For lay persons there are 5 precepts and for monks about 225 or something. There is a reason for that, we as lay persons enjoy dancing, music and various kinds of sensual pleasures…so only 5 precepts are given. Try focusing on becoming ‘true lay buddhist’ instead of ‘true buddhist’. True lay buddhist’ is one who is not renunciant and follows 5 precepts daily and 8 precepts on uposatha days.(although not all follow 8 precepts as it is not that easy to follow). 5 precepts are atleast must…just focus on that.
See you said you are new to buddhism so you don’t need to judge yourself in negative way based on venerable buddhadasa’s bhikkhu’s standards because he was talking within some context.
Your understanding is correct…but I hate to break it to you that…we(lay Buddhists) although we have taken refuge in triple jewels in name (daily saying that "buddham Sharanam gacchami…"and so on), we actually haven’t taken refuge completely. We are not living by buddhist principles perfectly but (as you said above) we are ATTEMPTING TO LIVE BY BUDDHIST PRINCIPLES.
If we go by words…
1)Living by buddhist principles = ‘true buddhist’ (Aryans)
2)ATTEMPTING to live by buddhist principles = ‘buddhist’
So 90% of Buddhists come in the 2nd category.
Plz understand this…taking refuge in triple refuge is not yes/no task; it is not like turning light off/on; it is a process one has to put efforts daily, at each moments. Its like we are moulding our mind day by day(abandoning tendencies which bring harm and cultivating tendencies which are beneficial). In other words we are not ‘true buddhist’ yet, but gradually we are trying. So it’s not yes/no task but a gradual process of purification.
I will give you an analogy… we should see this as our teacher saying that you don’t study enough, if you had, you would have gotten 100% but you are not ‘true apprentice’. See here teacher is pushing us(students) to progress higher n higher. Techers can sometimes be harsh on students so that some students might progress faster. A true student ideally tries to score 100%. So yes in teacher’s eyes we are not true students, we are working to be true students.
It is same as above we are not perfectly taking refuge in buddha, dhamma and sangha; we are actually trying to do it perfectly day by day.
Yes by Buddhadasa bhikkhu’s standards only stream-enterer or higher noble beings are true Buddhists and we are trying to reach there…so we are trying to be true Buddhists…hence we are not ‘True buddhist’ but we are just ‘Buddhists’. (If we go by the words alone).
I think buddhadasa’s bhikkhu’s remarks should be seen as remarks given to student who’s ‘learning’ but not yet ‘learned’ or completed study…hence not ‘true student’ but just ‘student’.
Lastly I would like to suggest you one thing…plz try not to judge yourself so harshly based on various remarks of various teachers. As buddha said, be a lamp unto yourself…so just ignore if some other lamp says you are not that bright or another lamp says you are too bright. Just absorb what benefits you and ignore/let go of what doesn’t seem to be of benefitting you! Focus on EBT’s which are best standards to know dhamma. Its actually easier like this.
Btw sorry if I sounded rude or disrespectful somewhere, my English isn’t perfect! And also Because I am not ‘true English speaker’ rather I’m trying to be ‘true English speaker’ hence I am just ‘English speaker’! Just tried to extend analogy further…