Hmmm…I don’t understand how the points you’re making are derived from what I wrote, and I never wish to force conclusions on anyone.
So perhaps I can offer some clarifications:
- Nibbāna is described in Iti44 as nibbāna with residue while the arahant is still alive. This means the senses and khandhas are still present and operating but that there is complete freedom from all defilements, all greed anger and ignorance. So clearly the Buddha and arahants did realize the freedom of nibbāna, even while the khndhas remained.
But because the khandhas themselves are impermanent and therefore a form of dukkha, there is not yet freedom from all dukkha:
SN12.125: “Whatever arises and ceases is only dukkha arising and ceasing.” And
SN22.15: Yad aniccaṁ taṁ dukkhaṁ; “What is impermanent is suffering.”
One of the most frequent “definitions” of nibbāna in the suttas is:
SN43.2 - “And what is the unconditioned? The ending of greed, hate, and delusion. This is called the unconditioned.”
This can be realized in this life, as the Buddha and arahants did. So let’s call it real in that sense. Never tried to say otherwise.
- The other description of niibbāna in Iti44 is nibbāna without residue, meaning final nibbāna after the death of an arahant, when the khndhas and senses completely cease. In other words, cessation.
So one way to view this is that when the Buddha spoke innumerable times about cessation, he meant it.
Snp3.12: ““All the suffering that originates is caused by consciousness.; With the cessation of consciousness, there is no origination of suffering.”
SN22.61: "They understand: ‘Rebirth is ended, the spiritual journey has been completed, what had to be done has been done, there is no return to any state of existence.’”
In other words…cessation.
SN47.42: "Nāmarūpasamudayā cittassa samudayo; nāmarūpanirodhā cittassa atthaṅgamo.
"The mind originates from name and form. When name and form cease, the mind ends.
In other words, cessation.
In this way, cessation is necessarily final freedom from any birth, becoming, death, etc. and necessarily devoid of dukkha. Hence not so much “an unborn” which can be easily reified, but “without birth” or “freedom from birth” via the cessation of all that.
If you wish to view final nibbāna as some kind of ineffable timeless “something”, that’s of course up to you and anyone else who wishes to take this view.
Clearly, there is respectful debate about this by a number of respected Dhamma practitioners and teachers.
The question then becomes – What sutta teachings clearly and repeatedly state that final nibbāna is a “timeless mind” or an ineffable “something”?
BTW, this topic has been discussed many times on this forum, in case you haven’t read them yet.
Just saying…