@Moloch, in referencing my quote in your post above, you seem to have omitted the tongue out, winking, smiley face emoji, which indicates that it is a tongue in cheek, sardonic statement meant as a bit of an ironic joke.
This was not an “aggressive statement”. If the mods are messaging you privately about your communication style and aggressive tone, and people are calling you out in this thread, too, then it would be wise to pause, take some time out and reflect a bit.