I’m a third-generation immigrant. I pass as white English, and I grew up in poor area with high levels of white racism and moved to a less poor area with still high levels of more polite white racism. Therefore I’ve been part of a lot of “ha, you’re English too!” racist talks, which is both sad and amusing, because I can shut it down by having a foreign surname (one that clearly links to a national group often despised by white racists).
I am confronted by my otherness, my mother’s otherness, and her parent’s otherness regularly. The UK government has, I believe, passed a law making it easier for people like me to be deported in case we are unwanted. My wife has been targeted for abuse because “an English girl shouldn’t marry a foreigner” at work.
My non-white students tend to be confronted with their blackness regularly. They are disciplined more harshly by teachers – I have seen this with my own eyes. Evidence suggests that this is statistically significant across the population. Students resist racial integration in shared spaces to an extent which is very visible.
White people not wanting to take on the task of confronting their whiteness is not a solution and not a strength. White people have constructed a world where others must apologise for their otherness regularly, and face more limited life experiences because of it. (People with stereotypically white names are more likely to get jobs than someone with a name that brings with it negative stereotypes, I posted a link to the study earlier). It is an unfair burden to elide whiteness, and it is an unfair burden which maintains the racial superiorities inherent in “I am the default, and I don’t have to bother”. Colour-blindness is not a solution, as it merely elides the issues in favour of but I’m alright, what are you complaining about?
To quote Martin Luther King:
"First, I must confess that over the last few years I have been gravely disappointed with the white moderate. I have almost reached the regrettable conclusion that the Negro’s great stumbling block in the stride toward freedom is not the White Citizen’s Council-er or the Ku Klux Klanner, but the white moderate who is more devoted to “order” than to justice; who prefers a negative peace which is the absence of tension to a positive peace which is the presence of justice; who constantly says “I agree with you in the goal you seek, but I can’t agree with your methods of direct action;” who paternalistically feels he can set the timetable for another man’s freedom; who lives by the myth of time and who constantly advises the Negro to wait until a “more convenient season.”
Confronting whiteness is not convenient, I agree. But it won’t put you in prison, it won’t make your children’s lives in school harder, and it, at worst, results in a kind of shame that you can take on and tackle by yourself. I, for one, am glad that the effects are so transitory.
So, if you think talking about whiteness is a red-herring for a factual reason, please explain and give those facts.
And if you think it is a red-herring because if makes you feel lesser, then the good news is that you’re not being oppressed, you’re just being asked to be a better person. Isn’t that a worthwhile journey?