Continuing the discussion from Politics and buddhism - am I missing something?:
Check out this article in the Sydney Morning Herald about Linda Burney, Aborignal Australian Member of Parliament and Andrew Bolt, recognisable, conservative commentator. These two should give talks about respectful dialogue…they nail it. They would probably see the ultimate goals of their opposing views to be peace and harmony…yet it is not by getting angry with each other and changing each other’s minds that they achieve this between themselves.
The Buddha advises we come from Truth/Wisdom, Love and Peace and Courage when interacting with each other, when making decisions; not from fear, stupidity/ignorance/delusion, not from hate/negativity, violence or distractedness.
From personal experience, I (and I’m sure most of us can say this) know the devasting impact anger and other negative states have on my own body and mind. How it saps my energy and clouds my perspective and sinks me to depression eventually. It’s not a tool that’s going to be effective for the long term. It’s seductive, but inefficient.