I wondered if this online community has any knowledge of communities in which a lay practitioner can live and seriously practice for liberation?
I am not at the stage/not yet willing to renunciate a practice (music) that is unacceptable/breaks the 7th precept. So I am not fit to live in a monastery. I would like to continue practicing as a dedicated lay practitioner in the thai forest tradition. I am more than happy to live with buddhists of other traditions. And open to where it is in the world.
yes donât mind letting go of the home. Ha. Maybe happy to give up everything that is required to give up except music. I canât imagine Iâd get by in a monastery as I am a very loud singer ! I am a paid kapiya at the moment and that is wonderful.
You could sponsor yourself to build a sound proof room in a monastery, like karaoke. Then go in there when you need to sing. Can also say that itâs a quiet meditation room for those who needs it.
The inconveniences of having to wait for the room to be empty and having to sing in a location may eventually encourage you to let go of singing.
that is fantastic.
Actually I have a lot of shame and feel somewhat a failure when it comes to this in monastic contexts. And so hence I was seeing if there were lay /non-monastic places to practice.
Seriously. Every monastery needs at least one soundproof room (with wifi)! That place where you can have a private a conversation, just scream or break precepts about singing! Iâm hiding in a cupboard right now to make a personal call.
going back to mooâs original question⌠I know lay people who have set up their lives so that they can practice seriously, but they donât seem to want community. What is it that you want out of being in community that you arenât able to access in your life right now?
I have no problems incorporating practice into lay life, and I find those saying otherwise a bit childish. Excuses my directness, maybe a trait of serious practice - I never lie and am able to stand firm with any worlds, hideouts or in the streets â