Retreat - periods of seclusion - is something many of us benefit from. The practice of seclusion is clearly in the Buddha’s teachings - for good reasons.
It’s therapeutic to escape the frenetic pace of living in the mainstream. Taking a break from the hustle and bustle, even if we can only do it now and then, its always welcome.
However, it may not be helpful to cling to the view: I must have seclusion or my practice will never flower. If we ‘cling’ to this view it may impede our deepening in the Dhamma, when the circumstances don’t fit our preset notion of the ‘ideal’.
This doesn’t mean seclusion is not of great benefit, if we appreciate it and, respond to the opportunity skillfully. We may also enter seclusion and waste the opportunity it provides.
It’s clearly not a case of either/or - is it? We can also goof-off in seclusion. I learned this without even trying!
A practitioner can still enjoy beautiful meditation and not get overwhelmed by the world even when they have a timetable that would leave most of us in a mess. We need to ask why this is so?
I think part of the answer can be found when we reflect on our own journey in the Dhamma - over time. When we first start meditating we are easily distracted by what we call the world.
The barking seems to intrude on our search for peace and clarity. When our practice improves we come to understand Ajahn Chah’s teaching: we go out and disturb the noise!
The noise doesn’t come to us and announce: I am here to distract you? I have arrived at your ear-door to take you away from peace and clarity.
This is not what the sound of barking - the so-called world - is doing. It’s a misunderstanding of what is actually going on when, there’s a reaction?
We will not always be able to find a peaceful situation, we are going to lose any semblance of control, the illusion of control. We are going to meet the reality of no control head on - sooner or later.
If, we insist that seclusion from difficult states and circumstances are an absolute prerequisite for our practice we may need to reflect more carefully about the way it is.
We can find peace and clarity anywhere if we know how to let go and, let things be. With bare awareness there is no need for complete seclusion but there must be reaction-free attention.
We can still work and perform our daily duties in the midst of people, ordinary daily life, if we have the Sila, the Samadhi and, the Panna, unfolding in life.
Instead of insisting - habitually - that this is beyond us, why not let this fixed-idea go? It’s just another thought-bubble that arises and ceases along with everything else in the parade.
A wise man once said: cling to naught?
What do you think ‘sakaya ditthi’ (personality view) is, if it isn’t what you have said above? In your opinion, is it something else?
If, it isn’t something else and, personality-view ‘is’ an erroneous view that is ‘lost’ when the first glimpse of reality takes place - at stream entry - then, what are we to make of what you have said?
What has it got to do with the truth of the matter - what is actually going on - if you have not factored-in the teachings on personality view? Or, are you simply saying: this is how things seem to be, before we wake up?