Two of the 5 higher fetters are rūparāgo & arūparāgo:
”Lust for form, lust for the formless”
Luminous form realms:
Three kinds of pleasant rebirth: There are sentient beings who, having repeatedly given rise to it, dwell in pleasure. Namely, the gods of Brahmā’s Host. This is the first pleasant rebirth. There are sentient beings who are drenched, steeped, filled, and soaked with pleasure. Every so often they feel inspired to exclaim: ‘Oh, what bliss! Oh, what bliss!’ Namely, the gods of streaming radiance. This is the second pleasant rebirth. There are sentient beings who are drenched, steeped, filled, and soaked with pleasure. Since they’re truly content, they experience pleasure. Namely, the gods replete with glory. This is the third pleasant rebirth.
Formless realms:
There are some ascetics and brahmins who advocate the ultimate purity of the spirit. This is the best of the advocates of the ultimate purity of the spirit, that is, when someone, going totally beyond the dimension of nothingness, enters and remains in the dimension of neither perception nor non-perception. They teach Dhamma in order to directly know and realize this. Some sentient beings have such a doctrine. But even the sentient beings who have such a doctrine decay and perish.
The reason I bring this up is because if there is no suffering/pain/sorrow/ whatsoever in both the luminous form and formless realms, lust for these pain-free, sorrowless realms is something we can understand that anyone would crave for: ”Sentient beings who are drenched, steeped, filled, and soaked with pleasure.”
So it is clear why rūparāgo & arūparāgo belong to the higher fetters.
It is the Buddha’s unique insight that these realms are impermanent that even make them unsatisfactory.
The actual experience and extremely long duration of being in these realms involves zero suffering. It is because they will eventually come to an end that they are considered suffering. Since the sentient beings there decay and perish they are forced to take rebirth, and it is because of rebirth we can say not-self about the experience that ended.
Since all non-buddhist meditators can reach these realms, could those of the non-existence ”termination view” please enlighten all of these meditators as to why they should convert to buddhism and eternally terminate themselves 100% in these realms where they are: ”drenched, steeped, filled, and soaked with pleasure.”?
Maybe termination could be craved for if there was some actual pain/sorrow/stress while in these realms…but there is no such thing in these realms according to the Buddha. The suffering the Buddha pointed out is only due to the experience eventually coming to an end, no suffering at all during its phase though.
Proponents of eternal termination non-existence say:
The idea that final Nibbāna is nothing apart from the cessation of the khandhas might seem bleak. If it seems bleak, it is only due to the false sense of having a permanent self, or more precisely, because of the view of personal identity, sakkāya-diṭṭhi. The sense that one has a permanent core — a distortion of perception that is unavoidable for all puthujjanas — makes cessation appear like annihilation and the successful practice of the path like a form of suicide. If cessation seems undesirable, it is only due to this distorted outlook. - Ajahn Brahmali
So the distorted outlook of ”I”, ”Me”, ”Mine” & ”Self” and a sense of ”a permanent core” is why no one wants to be eternally terminated, ok….
But according to AN 10.13 Sakkāyadiṭṭhi is one of the five lower fetters.
We can see the five lower fetters: Sakkāyadiṭṭhi (substantialist view), vicikicchā (doubt) sīlabbataparāmāso (misapprehension of precepts and observances), kāmacchando (sensual desire) and byāpādo (ill will) as having to do with kama loka and nothing but kama loka.
On the other hand Conceit (Māno) contrary to Sakkāyadiṭṭhi happens to be one of the 5 higher fetters along with Rūparāgo, arūparāgo, uddhaccaṁ, avijjā…
So there is obviously still a notion of ”Self” ”I” ”Me” ”Mine” in rupa loka and arupa loka.
If a meditator is asked to convert to buddhism to terminate oneself based on the realms in question being impermanent and there will be suffering in the future and one ought to escape that future suffering; how can any meditator verify for themselves that these realms are in fact impermanent and this will happen?
It becomes really hard, near impossible, to know and see the three characteristics as true and factual if the ending of the defilements and cessation of the khandhas result in a unconscious non-existence dreamless sleep type of thing.
There is no indication how such a state could ever give true insight into impermanence, suffering and not-self and applying this to all of existence.
Since there are no indications how to know and see the three characteristics as being true in such a state it is even harder to give up the conceit (māno) of ”Self” in such realms as the luminous form and formless. One would just be in a state of temporary ”extermination”, emerge from it and ponder about it as a ”self”.
I don’t understand because basically anyone, even non-meditators, already know what being unconscious is like and what it implies - no insights into the true nature of any realm of existence is discovered that way.
To say it is a pleasant escape is just a personal preference, try saying the same thing to the beings beyond kama loka who’s suffering will come……
…in only some, give or take, thousands of mahakappas in the very distant future…
Sure one could rely on pure faith in the Buddha, but with this faith one wouldn’t make any claims at all, like what Nibbāna actually implies and is, right?
There are just too many contradictions in the view.
Honestly, is there no middle ground here?
As in just cooling down and not relishing until nothing is felt? Which means to really get rid of greed in all its shapes and forms + ”non-shapes and formlessnesses”
thus knowing and seeing the realms true nature?
All beings know what non-existence is and implies, some crave for it, while others crave for existence - both are samsaric.
Surely our great teacher pointed to something beyond non-existence and existence?
I would really hope so.